update on chastity play and empowering my wife.

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update on chastity play and empowering my wife.I wrote a time ago when I first got my chastity cage and introduced it to my wife. It has been a year or more since then and I thought I would drop in to write about how things have gone. For the most part not a lot has changed, but I feel more at ease with my kinky side around her than ever before. It has been a period of learning what works for us and what doesn’t and how basic terms can be confusing in finding a workable and mutually enjoyable play. On chastity play my wife has become much more comfortable caging me, but she is still not very comfortable denying me. We have worked out using the cage when she leaves me at home for a work day or band outing where I could masturbate with her away. She is more comfortable removing the cage at the end of the day and letting me sleep free. This lets her feel better about hygiene and my discomfort. The frustrating part that we can not connect on her her actively denying me vs passively denying me. As every married couple knows, life happens and can zip a week or two past without time güvenilir illegal bahis siteleri to enjoy each other. As it stands, she feels pressured if I ask her to deny me in those periods. She has to feel sexy in order to enjoy the act of denial. That has been one of my learning pains and I am getting better at it but still fail her and it hits her hard when she feels she isn’t meeting my needs.The year has been more about me learning to temper my unspoken demands and pressures. When she is teasing me for a week and denying me I get touchy with her. I can’t help the desire to give her a back rub while she is on her computer relaxing. It can get too much for her though, and I have had to learn to ask if she would like my attention of not. It’s a balancing act, where she does enjoy the adoration… just not too much adoration. The parts that turn me on the most and make me the happiest is that she glows with confidence. It’s not the act of locking me up, but the continues small acts of reminding her that I adore her and that I support her indulging her mobilbahis güvenilir mi selfish desires. In thanking her every time she lets me hold her and caress her body while she uses the magic wand to tease out an orgasm. Her hand squeezing mine as she rocks in waves of pleasure and kisses me goodnight without worrying anymore that I need her attention. We have talked about her cuckolding me, but after talking about the fantasy for a long time it does boil down to some realities. She isn’t interested in fucking other guys or sex for the sake of sex, and I would have a very hard time with her having a long time lover type relationship. I still acknowledge that I give her the power to decide for us and encourage her to flirt and enjoy as much male attention as she likes accepting her lines.That has been the main theme of my last year, learning what makes her feel sexy and how I can satisfy my submissive kinks within those lines. We have a game where I have a smoking fetish and she only smokes on occasion. I have a package hidden and can get her hepsibahis one a day or deny her if I want. If she demands then I must give her what she asks for of course. I massage her feet while she relaxes with a cigarette. Sometimes I am cages, sometimes she will even tease me while she enjoys herself. It is one of the perfect times where she gets to enjoy every aspect of her hedonistic side and my adoration while doing it.This is much more of a ramble than I had expected, but it is letting me get out most of the thoughts I’ve been having. The last part is simply terms. I encourage her to be dominant, and she hears me and it allows her to be more confident but she does not identify as domme. It has taken me a year to work of a simple thing to call her to give her power but not be too much. Mistress, domme, my lady are all to much for her. For a while I used “princess”, for lack of anything better but it is too formal and tacky as well. The last little bit I finally arrived at “my adored”. It’s not perfect and I don’t use it often or she just looks at me like I’m trying to hard, but I think it gives her a standing above mine and lets her know that I see and love every part of her.That is it for now and I will end saying I feel like the luckiest guy in the world. I actively look at my wife with love every day and she returns that look with equal measures of affection.

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